Hi all, Need some friends

[andrea]

Hi all, Sorry that I havent been here in ages. Had a spot of bother and to be honest could do with some friends.

To cut a very long story short I went on holiday with my husband and 3 kids and my best friend and her kids for my birthday. Really horrible time, got home and husband left me after 9 years of marriage for my best friend! Needless to say it had been going on for a while. She lives just down the road! Everything is in a mess. Struggling to trust anyone and utterly devastated!

Homer is fine though...He has really grown! He is now on jumper mice!

[John Pilling]

Andrea i am so so very sorry , i know what it feel like to be let down by somone you love, but with me we never got wed (not so far off).

If their is anything i can do at all, even if it's just a phone call or email, i'm here for whatever help or support you need, even if it's just a shoulder to cry on.

Again i am very sorry.

[Dave]

im really sorry to hear that, i have had a horrid time with relationships but my belief in marriage was that it was forever! well i guess a lot dont last an that makes me feel empty inside but my belief is that some do work an i hold on to that thought!
i hope you can move on from this and be happy an ive added you on msn if you wanna talk
again im sorry to hear this!

[sparkle**]

Hey! I'm really sorry to hear that lifes not treating you so good, i know what its like when a long tearm relationship ends and when your the one left with the kids. if you ever want to talk then just add me to your msn and give me a buzz. i'm about most of the time. Again i'm very sorry

[andrea]

Thanks alot. Don't know who to talk to now. When you are betrayed by people closest to you you don't know who to trust. Spent alot of time sorting things out and havent spoken to anyone really. Was devastated but now realize that anyone that can do that is not worth knowing! I do deserve better. I also thought marriage was forever it had lasted 9 years and never in a million years expected this to happen.

My second snake idea has gone out of the window for the time being sadly! Homer is doing really well though I sit and hold him most evenings when hes most active. He is really growing in length and is going alot more orange and yellow now. He still isnt very thick yet. Is that normal? Hes about 9 months old now.

Thanks again

[John Pilling]

Homer's fine, he will have spurts like this where he will thicken out slightley then grow longer again, so don't worry about him.

As to everything else, it is really really hard to trust anyone after someone has let you down so badley. Like i said on here tho, i'm here for you, and so is everyone who has replied.

I wish you all the best, and if you do need to talk (phone, msn, or yahoo) i am here for you.

[Keith]

Hang in there, Andrea!

[Vicki]

Aww u poor thing. You can also add me to msn if you want a chat. Hope everything works out for you hun